A
woman whose husband's lifestyles heavily contrasts against her own is seeking a
quick solution to the problem.
According
to the woman, her man has refused to pay attention to the Church and has left
her in pains because of that.
Below
is what she shared:
My
husband hates church. He believes that pastors and evangelists are thieves and
con-men who have nothing good to offer. The last time he stepped into a church
was on our wedding day.
He
was like that when I married him but I thought I could change him. However 7
years has passed and we have 4 kids now yet he never participates in their
baptism and dedication. I always do these things alone as if i am a widow. the
one that happened last weekend left me in shock.
His
best friend's father died and was buried last month and the family went for the
1st month service last Sunday. But my husband refused to enter the church and
remained outside the compound. I was so embarrassed because our family friends
were there. They now all believe that he may be diabolic hence his refusal to
enter any church but he is not diabolic because I know him too well and he is a
good man but his deep hatred for church has made us a topic of discussion since
last weekend. It was only a few who dared to ask me while the rest concluded
that he may be an occultist.
Please.
I dont know what to do to make him change his mind. I have tried begging,
nagging, getting angry, crying to no avail. Please what do I do?
All
he will keeps telling me is that he is closer to God than even me who go to
church every sunday. He always has a bad story to tell about pastors. If he is
not gisting you about a pastor that was sleeping with his members wives, he
will be talking about another who was stealing church funds. He even told me
that ndi-omenala (traditional religion practitioners) are more reliable and
trustworthy than Christians.
Seriously,
I have exhausted every idea I have to change him but he refused and told me
that because he loves me, he can only allow me raise our kids in the church way
and that alone he says in a big sacrifice on his part because i am exposing the
kids to lies in the name of church.
Please
help me. I trek to church every Sunday and if he was coming with me, he would
drive us with his car like every other responsible husband does. I dont know
how to drive so i have to trek with my kids every sunday.
Even
to join us in morning and evening devotion at home is impossible for him. I
have prayed and fasted and he is not changing. I dont know what to do.
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